Guidance
for March
Hello,
dear ones. We welcome you, and applaud you once again. Many
of you have had to face that which you have believed was
completed and yet it stares you in the face once again.
You now have a new perspective on an old piece of business.
You can now look at the old with fresh eyes. This
will assist you in moving to a new place in your existence.
The use of caution is no longer necessary as a way to alter
the outcome of what you did in the past, for it keeps you
linked to yesterday. It does not give you enough elbow room
to move. At this time you are wanting to open doors fully,
not half-way. That which is needed at this time is much
bolder gestures and less walking with caution and trepidation.
In Light and Love, Kandel (The Communicators)
Questions
from Readers
After
13 years of channeling The Communicators I am in constant
awe of the guidance that comes forth. I have learned
so much from The Communicators and I would like to share
their guidance with you
through the questions that readers have sent in.
Special thanks to Brigitte,
Beverly and Maryanne for submitting a question.
Brigitte
from Geneva and the World:
I am leaving the US at the end of the month after nearly
one year and cannot come back unless I pursue a student
visa in the fall as a doctoral student. I have had so many
obstacles and still I WONDER if this is the right move.
Shall I leave the States for good now? I have a lot of allies
on one side and on the other I feel a nostalgia for Europe.
The Communicators: Hello
Brigitte, we would like to congratulate you on all the fine
work you have accomplished. Now it is time for you to return
to your source. You have needed to move into a different
culture so that you could clear out old hurts and expand
your mighty vision. To continue in your current mode would
simply stunt your growth. The anxiety you are experiencing
at this time is your fear of returning to the “old”.
You have a new found freedom and you are not willing to
return to the old “feelings”. Brigitte we can
assure you that you will never return to the past “Brigitte”
because that mass of energy no longer exists – you
have created a new paradigm for yourself and it is from
that place that you will come forth. As to where exactly
you need to go – this is for you to determine. Your
life must be about following your heart. To direct you would
be to limit you. Your own self-expression is very willing
and able to take on the task of finding a new direction
for “YOU”. Once you feel safe you mind will
open up to many new possibilities and that is what you need
to follow.
Beverly
from Long Island:
My question deals with me not completing the projects that
I start. I'm not sure of the reason, boredom, and fear of
the outcome or just not knowing what to do next. I am concerned
that I am not starting a new project because I am afraid
I won't finish it.
The Communicators:
Dear you are a soul of enormous creativity and vision and
yet you often second guess that which you see before you.
That which haunts you is a kind of self-judgment which questions
if what you are doing, or about to do is constructive, sensible
or practical. This is the voice of censorship that often
throws a bucket of cold water on many of your inspired ideas.
Somehow you feel you must find a “reason” to
justify what you want to do. Often this can take a good
deal of time until you can find a “good enough”
reason to do a project. This tends to be exhausting and
it causes you to lose interest in the project. The area
to work on is the “censorship” of your creative
process. Your creativity gives you enormous joy and allows
you to express yourself in much bolder ways than you would
otherwise. The more you can tap into that aspect of yourself
the greater joy you will feel in your life. Dear the next
time an idea comes to you, begin to notice your process.
At first you may allow yourself to dream about it fully
and the moment that you decide you would like to do it,
the censor takes over. Dear when you can see these two aspects
of yourself; the creator and the censor, than you can begin
to disengage from this pattern. This is so ingrained in
your process that you believe it is your process, but in
fact it has just become a habit; it is not how you are intended
to function or to create.
Maryann
from NYC:
I've been paying more attention to how I interact with the
family I married into. The most challenging person in this
family, for me, has always been my husband's aunt. I'm trying
to open up and just be myself in her presence, but I continue
to find her challenging. In the past it was best to steer
clear of her, but I don't want to do that anymore. I'm looking
for fine pointers on how to relate to Auntie, and how to
grow with the family.
The Communicators: Hello dear one, that
which you desire now is to get things in order and to “get
it right.” This comes up in reference to your husband’s
family for it is an extension of him and you are still wanting
to “ get things right” with him. The Aunt you
are speaking of is well intentioned, and yet her energy
is often toxic to those that don’t understand why
she says and does the things that she does. What is most
disturbing to you is that you feel you “can’t
get it right” when you in her presence. You speak
of your husband’s family but the challenge for you
at this time has more to do with your relationship to yourself
and your need “to get it right. Dear you have gotten
it right, time and time again. But sometimes there will
be loose ends, or sloppy feelings, or unruly people who
blurt out things that make your uncomfortable. This is all
part of life on earth, and no matter how you may work at
“getting it right” there will always be something
that is askew. You are quite aware of the many imperfections
around you and inside of you, the next step is to see that
all is quite perfect as it is, and you have indeed “gotten
it quite right”! A family is made up of many parts
some edges are smooth, some are rough and some are pointy
and yet when you put all the pieces together it create a
whole. Each part contributes to the whole and Auntie is
an integral part of what cements this family together, from
her everything flows, even when it appears otherwise. There
is much wonder in Auntie and over time you will get to see
it.
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