Guidance for February
Hello dear ones welcome. The time is here and you are not. You want to be here, you wish you were here and yet you are still sitting on the fence wondering why you can’t get off the fence. Dear ones we know that you all have struggled to move through those places within yourselves that holds the memories and imprints of earlier days. It is that which you know innately but can not really see. The feeling is deep to explore new vistas to expand your wings so that you may fly and explore new worlds. Each moment of struggle to disengage from the past is a split from the past and yet it still holds you captive to times that are familiar to you being. We come to you to continually encourage you to hold on to the those dreams and know that they need not be only dreams but the possibility for manifestation does exist. We are to be like a cheering squad to encourage you to continue to open up to all the possibilities that exist for you on earth. Open your eyes to see, open your minds to know, and open your hearts to love.

In Light and Love, Kandel ( The Communicators)

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Questions from Readers
After 13 years of channeling The Communicators I am in constant awe of the guidance that comes forth.  I have learned so much from The Communicators and I would like to share their guidance with you through the questions that readers have sent in.
Special thanks to Amalia, Laura and Saskia for submitting a question.

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Amalia from Conn:  Why can't I keep my determination on losing weight?

The Communicators: Hello, Amalia. That which you are asking at this time is not a new question, but a relevant one in that you have become more and more dependent on food as a way to relax and release anxieties that are occurring in other areas of your life. We understand your concern to modify your eating patterns, but frankly at this time this is not a real priority in your life. What is far more important for you is to take sufficient time to work out some family issues. Until you feel more at peace in your home life you will find it quite difficult to maintain a food plan. There are much more important questions that you are in need of asking yourself at this time.

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Laura from NYC: I have been struggling lately with my relationship to myself. It sounds odd, but honoring myself and loving myself fiercely often feels unnatural. I have never fully experienced this on a day to day basis and I know I do this to avoid something within myself that I need to look at. Since I haven't fully taken care of myself, it affects my relationships. Instead of doing the things I need to do, I allow other things and people to enter and distract me. I am trying to change this, by learning to say no, even when it feels as though every fiber of my being wants to say yes. How can I overcome my old patterns and honor my divine self?

The Communicators: Hello dear one, the question that you ask is one that you already know the answer to it. You are like a woman on the run, it has been your MO since childhood. It has been your way of “avoiding” that which has made you uncomfortable or allowed you to “feel” too deeply. At this time your primary relationship is enormously challenging to you – in that it is forcing you to grow and go beyond this pattern of flight. You believe you are compromising yourself when you say "YES" but, what you are doing by saying "YES" is agreeing to face uncomfortable feelings. Laura you are one of much inner wisdom and you can easily see the “truth” when you want to. Our recommendation at this time would be for you to observe your behavior more carefully and begin to note what sets you in flight? What are the triggers? By seeing this you will begin to put together the missing pieces of this puzzle called your life. It is by relating to others that your buttons are pushed, and by clearing out those hot spots you will get to know who you are.

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Saskia: My six-year-old son, Calum, has been stuttering since the age of three. He is now in speech therapy since the fall and I don't see any improvement. He gets stuck many times on each sentence. It doesn't seem to affect his love of communication and chatter but I am concerned as to his lack of improvement and his difficulty with this in the future. Any advice or explanation that would bring understanding and steps to help him with?

The Communicators: Hello Saskia, we welcome you. The one called Calum is a most amazing young man, who does indeed enjoy communicating in every form. The stuttering that he experiences comes about because his mind moves so rapidly and there is so many thoughts that he wants to express at the same time. We understand as a mother that his development is of concern to you and yet - we can assure you that he is just fine. He is not ready to give this up - in many ways it allows him to "pause" and slow down a bit so that his mind can acclimate itself to this slower speed. At a point, quite naturally he will find a way to coordinate the speed of his mind with the rhythm of his words. He needs to have an audience, he wants to be listened to, and above all he wants to express his many thoughts. This is a wonderful boy filled with so much spirit and delight. Saskia that is what you must see, and ignore the words of other people. We can assure you that you are an exemplary mother and you are doing all that Calum needs. But he is just not quite ready to stop stuttering!

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