Guidance
for April 05
Hello
dear ones, welcome to you all – yes we speak to all
of you – not just the ones that have been diligent
about their daily work, not just the ones that are happy
or sad or scared or worried, we speak to all of you. For
that which is taking place on earth is about a group effort
that can only be initiated by the individual. The call is
to come forth and to be the very best YOU that there is.
No need for you to be what your mother told you to be, or
what you believed would please your father – no it
is time for the essence of “YOU” to be seen
and heard by all. You are given a name and you are asked
to follow a path. You believe that there is only one way
to walk this path – you take the lead of your parents,
either emulating them or defying them, taking many twists
and turns in the process. Until the day comes when you begin
to realize that you no longer need to walk in the imprint
of another that your feet have formed their own image and
now you can create your own individual foot prints. So we
sing out to you the word INDIVIDUALITY, that which makes
you unique in the universe. It is that special quality that
is being asked for at this time. See it and be it. It is
the I AM.
In
Light and Love, Kandel (The Communicators)
Questions
from Readers
After
13 years of channeling The Communicators I am in constant
awe of the guidance that comes forth. I have learned
so much from The Communicators and I would like to share
their guidance with you
through the questions that readers have sent in.
Special thanks to Melanie,
Bella and Renee for submitting a question.
Melanie
from Memphis:
I am in a very emptying process in my life right now. Loss
of employment for 1yr. and my partner of 3yrs has ended
our relationship and is moving to where or why she is not
revealing. How do I allow myself into these deep emotional
& unhealthy relationships? What am I blocking and not
allowing myself to make happiness for ME? In these next
few weeks I know that I am feeling fear more than ever.
The
Communicators:
Hello dear, that which is currently unfolding is indeed
the completion of a larger cycle that has been unfolding
for some time now. Emptying is a very fine way to describe
what is taking place in your life. All that was will no
longer be, and we understand that brings up a tremendous
amount of pain and feeling of loss within you. You have
had to do all this clearing so that you could start a new.
Dear, you have lived your life thus far as a person in hiding,
you have believed that you were being your authentic self
and yet this was not the case. You have manufactured a certain
persona as a way to live in a world that you believed was
against you. All of your choices were part of a defiance
you believed was needed for you to survive on earth. As
a part of your “defiance” you attracted all
that you needed to put together what you could call a life
– believing you were doing the best you could. But
little by little it fell apart because you could no longer
sustain the charade you have been living. Melanie, you are
a soul who is quite private and yet you have pushed forward
“to be out” so that you can say this is who
I am and you must accept this if you want to accept me!
In some ways this goes against your gentle nature. You have
not yet found a way to be truly yourself, to truly accept
yourself and allow other people to catch up. In an effort
to move forward in your life you have pushed yourself hard
and you can no longer do that. Once you have cleared out
everything that has “defiance” stamped on it
you will be free to yourself, a gentle soul who doesn’t
want to fight to be herself – she just wants to be
herself. We would not necessarily say that you have been
blocking but rather you selected a means of travel that
does not really suit you, and it is time to find a new mode.
We realize that you feel you have to make a “decision”
now – and yet you are not quite ready to do that.
As you described earlier you are emptying out your past
and you need to finish that process before you can be clear
about the future. Allow yourself to complete this phase
of your life, as well as the mourning that you are experiencing.
This is all that you can do right now. You will know when
you are ready to move on to something else – give
yourself the time and space you need right now to complete
this process.
Bella
from San Fransico:
I am a mother of three young children. I am experiencing
a lot of different anxieties and "Mommy Guilt".
I want special time with all of them, but it just doesn't
seem possible. I can't always give them the extra TLC that
I think they need or I want to give them. How can I know
them better individually?? How can I divide myself in three??
How can I rid myself of the things that just don't really
matter at the end of the day (ie; clean house, laundry and
other BS)? In the end I need to feel anxious, but sometimes
I feel wound so tight.
The Communicators:Hello
Bella, there is much you have said, and yet there is much
more that you have left out. That which is draining you
at this time is far more complex than being the mother of
3. Dear one, you are one of great creativity who longs to
be acknowledged for your many gifts and talents. At this
particular time in your life your children have become your
creative outlet. It is a job you have taken on whole-heartedly
and willingly, and yet that which drains you has more to
do with your own childhood disappointments you encountered
growing up. You were kept under a thumb when you needed
a much bigger playing field to work in. You expressed these
compressed feelings in creative ways and it allowed you
to make the best of things, and yet you have never really
dealt with your own pain of not being the “best.”
In your current life you are being challenged in every way
and once again those childhood feelings are returning. The
feeling of whatever you do is not adequate. These feelings
are deep and they are in relationship to your parents. As
a mother you’re quite loving and your children will
flourish, however, as a child you often felt short changed
and compromised. That is what needs to be cleared; not how
you can be a better parent, but rather how can you let go
of your own childhood hurts and bottled-up feelings that
you so often push down. As a child you did not learn how
to deal directly with conflict. You often circumvented what
you felt as a way to smooth things out. As a mother, you
are trying to do the same. This process of not dealing has
become far too stressful and the time has come for you to
look directly at your feelings. How can you go making this
shift? Each day you must give yourself a few moments in
which to write or speak about what you are feeling. You
can jot down words or phrases in a note book or a large
sketch pad. Leave a pen or markers attached to the book
or pad. Give the book a name and, when a feeling arises
jot it down. Or you can cut out words from a magazine that
resonate with you. You will be creating a collage of your
feelings. This is not necessarily a work of art but it will
become one. This is to be a “FEELING PROJECT”
not a mental exercise. When you find you are saying one
thing and really feeling another – write down the
authentic feelings. The purpose of this project is for you
to get in touch with what is really going on with Bella.
Renee
from New Jersey:
I would like to know why I lose my temper so easily with
people I love, especially my mother. Is it because I am
just like her?
The
Communicators:
Hello
dear, there is much confusion within you at this time. There
is a place within you that wants very much to please and
comfort your mother and there is another place within you
that is quite intolerant of everything that she says and
does. Why is there a split and how can you reconcile these
differences? The split comes from a split within YOU. Your
desire to have harmony and peace in your life is great and
yet you believe that the only way you can achieve this is
if everything falls into a certain place in a certain way.
When something falls out of the boundaries of what you believe
is acceptable you become filled with doubt and questions.
The more you attempt to control a particular outcome the
greater the anxiety you feel and the greater the explosion
that will follow. You often feel angry towards your mother
because she creates a distraction to make herself the center
of attention. She represents the unexpected when you are
attempting to put everything in a certain order. This all
comes from your own fear of being accepted and of needing
to have everything acceptable. Dear, the more you can see
that who you are is just fine, and even though your mother
may throw a wrench into what appears to be a perfect plan,
it will still be just fine. You will always attract souls
who want to upset the apple cart when you try so hard to
keep it stationary. That which you are seeking is to find
peace within yourself – this is often difficult for
you because your mind is always working on solving something.
Dear, it is time that you begin to learn some relaxation
and concentration techniques to assist you in focusing on
all that is positive within you and around you.
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