Guidance for May 2008

Hello, dear ones, we welcome you once again. That which sits in front of most of you is the desire to move ahead in your lives. But, at the same time, you feel that there is something pulling you in another direction. What is this all about?
That which is unfolding at this time on your planet is something of a purging and revitalization. People speak often of “change”--the desire for a different life—and, yet, so many of you are waiting for the change to come from some place outside of you. The voice in your head may be saying something like this: “Yes, I want to change…as long as it doesn’t disrupt my routine.” As you read these words you can see the dilemma. To simply wait for those around you or the government or the weather to change will not be sufficient. The change must come from within each of you. Each one of you must begin to put forth that which you indeed want to change. It doesn’t have to be monumental in scope, however, it must be done sincerely and be in alignment with what feels “true” for you. This change within you is not superficial in nature but is that which connects to your very core. Small shifts in individual consciousness can have a monumental universal impact.

In Grace and Joy, Demartucious (The Communicators)

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The Communicators: Hello, dear Sue we welcome you. That which has brought you to us today is not what you are to do, but rather who you are. Dear, you are a most creative and gifted soul who revels in your talents and who also often pushes them aside in favor of what you see as “necessary”. Dear, there is an aspect of you that doesn’t fully honor your abilities in a way that would open up many new possibilities for you. It is less about what you “should” do and more about celebrating. Dear, the more you enjoy each “bloom” that you bring forth, the more blooms will sprout. It is through your own enjoyment that you will create an abundant and fertile crop. It is actually quite a simple idea and yet human tend to layer simplicity with big boulders when it isn’t at all necessary.

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Collins from Queens: It is very disappointing to me how no one can live up to my expectations. What ever happened to good character and keeping one’s word? I feel as though I can’t count on anyone any more. Maybe that is why I am single.

The Communicators: Hello, dear one. We welcome you and have deep appreciation for your coming forth at this time. That which you ask is not really a question but rather a statement about how you feel at this time in your life. Collin, you have positioned yourself in such a way that you are receiving what you are blocking. Let us explain, dear one. That which you desire most at this time in your life is to feel “full,” abundant, and acknowledged. You want this and, yet, that which you bring forth in terms of connecting to other people is somewhat limited. You step forward and want to stick your finger in the water and stir it around, but you are not really willing to get all wet. Dear one, you are circling around the edge of the pond. Until you decide you really want to jump in, you will meet up with characters that are mirroring your own position. Collin, you are waiting for someone else to take the first step, as a sort of assurance that you will not get burnt. If you really want to change the “kinds of people” that you are attracting, you will need to begin in your own backyard. If you want more honesty and reliability in your life, then you will need to be more honest and come forth 100%. Collin, you believe you are far more present, open, and accessible than your current behavior reflects. Dear, you have the capacity for a large open heart and a very loving spirit. However, you often hide behind superficiality as a way to get by. Collin, you have the power and ability to change the course of your life and the experiences that you call forth. That will happen when you are ready to make it happen.

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Isabella from Maryland: Our youngest son is going to be three years old this month and has always had difficulty relaxing into sleep. Since he was a baby, I held him a lot and slept with him. Otherwise, he would not be able to relax. Nights are very difficult. He will not fall asleep unless I sleep with him. He usually wakes up as soon as I leave the bed. He falls asleep very late. During the day he is quite cranky due to the lack of sleep. Our older son, who is quite jealous, has not gotten much attention from me since his brother was born. He resents me for not spending time alone with him. What bothers me is that I lose my patience quite often, now, something I rarely did with our oldest when he was younger. It seems like we are stuck in this dance. What is going on?

The Communicators: Hello, dear Isabella. We welcome you and applaud you for the very fine inner shifting that has taken place within your family framework. Dear, that which is arising for you at this particular time has less to do with the children and more to do with your need to “get on with it.” Dear, on some level you are like a soul that has felt as if you have been imprisoned and you cannot wait to be free. You are on the brink of this liberation and you just simply cannot take a moment more of the “boredom” you often feel. Dear, at the same time, you also realize that you are most fortunate and that, indeed, your children and your life are quite fulfilling. The combination of freedom versus guilt sets off the impatience in you. The children are sensing your restlessness and they are deliberately clinging more to you, which just exacerbates all that you are feeling. Your younger son is not quite ready to give up mommy; he likes the safety of knowing you are always very close to him. This, however, will change as he gets older. Your older son does want more attention and, even though you want to accommodate him, your younger son will not allow that to happen. He knows he is in competition with his brother for your attention and, to be quite candid, he wants to win. This rivalry existed before this incarnation. We would say there is much love between the two brothers. And, yet, if there is an opportunity for one to outdo the other, it will arise. There is no malice in this competition; it has always been more of a game between these two souls. Dear, the road ahead will initially feel bumpier and then it will ease up. Each one of you will find your new direction and be most elevated by the experience.

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